Real
love is exactly the opposite of lust. Lusting after strangers or anyone other
than who we are married is being disrespectful to the purity of that person and
to the purity of ourselves. No one else’s body belongs to us except for the
person we are married to. Real love is something we learn from our spiritual
growth with God. Love is a verb, not a feeling. To love someone means to
actually sacrifice something of ourselves without asking for anything in
return. Without God we cannot love others in the proper ways.