Marriage OOOOH!
Having slightly negative feelings toward your partner.
As inherently flawed human beings, we make mistakes. Sometimes we fail
to live up to our own expectations or the expectations of our partner.
When expectations go unmet, the result is bitterness that acts like an
acid; one that slowly eats away at the foundation of the relationship.
The negative feelings that you are experiencing
are likely due to not having a need or an expectation met (we formulate
expectations to try and meet our needs). Don’t ignore this warning
light! Instead, take a moment to reflect upon why you are feeling what
you’re feeling.
Look deep within yourself to see if a need or
expectation is not being met. Then communicate your feelings to your
partner. Make sure to use “I statements” as to not put your partner on
the defense. Ignoring this sign will only cause further relationship
damage.
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