How a Sincere Christian Should Find Their Soul Mate

For the Christian to have a great marriage means to have a great relationship with Jesus Christ. You must be willing to serve and care for your spouse even more than you care for yourself. This attitude of service in both the husband and the wife will allow for the marriage to prosper and flourish with blessings.

God did not sanctify (set apart) marriage for spouses to be selfish with one another. Good grief, no! Marriage was created and instituted for God’s purpose—your marriage belongs to God. Marriage is a living symbol of the relationship between Christ and the church.

As a Christian if you believe that you are ready to care for and commit your life to another in the “ways of the Lord” then the next step is to find friendships in the Lord and wait on God. Be still with your emotions. Don’t let your emotions rule the relationship. That means you have to get dating and the attitudes that are associated with dating completely out of your mind. Dating is not for the sincere Christian to partake in.

Real love is a verb

What does that mean?  Real love is a verb, which means to love others takes effort. Principled acts of love can actually grow deeper and richer with the age of the marriage, especially if the marriage has been led under the wisdom of God. A principled act of love is all about choosing to love the person you married and doing it with wisdom.

Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves. (Romans 12:9, 10 NIV)

Some people have this preconceived idea that love

Samson Lusted After Delilah

Don't be like Samson

Lust as described by scripture is an inappropriate and excessive desire or craving for something that preoccupies our mind and actions. When a person becomes preoccupied with lust and desire until it affects their perspective on everything else around them there is a problem. Dating relationships among young people are often ruled by emotional and sexual desires that fuel into addiction later on in life. 

When a young spiritually immature mind believes

God sees things great in you

God sees things in you; a hidden strength, that no one around you could see. Somwhere in your life you showed up with a vision, a goal that humbly speaking makes no sense something inside you will say, 'I will', while everything around you is saying ,'you can't'. It will take you beyond your own competency and makes you realise that it's only by faith in God that one attains.

How a Husband Should Love His Wife and a Wife Love Her Husband

“For we are members of His body of His flesh, and of His bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.” (Ephesians 5:30) 

God made them male and female for a reason. 1) To give and receive sexual pleasure in marriage. 2) To bear children for the Lord. 3) To compliment one another in marriage. 4) To show the example of Christ and the church—marriage is the living symbol of Christ and the church. 

Are you having an emotional affair?

Are you having an emotional affair?

 Emotional affairs are fuelled by the fact that there’s no sexual intimacy involved.

To most people, an affair isn’t an affair unless physical intimacy is involved.

Cheating, in the context of marriage, has for a long time been defined as sexual intimacy with someone who isn’t your husband or wife.

However, the fact is that there is more to unfaithfulness than an illicit physical romp.

Think about it – what would you call regular chats, lunch and coffee dates with a co-worker, who knows everything about you, including the fight you had with your husband or your wife two days

Marriage and You.

Marriage, according to the Oxford Advanced Learners’ Dictionary, is the legal relationship between a husband and wife.
Marriages are contracted in the traditional way, in form of Introduction and Engagement; in the legal way, in form of Registry Wedding; in the Christian way, in form of Church Wedding and in the Islamic way, in  form of Nikkai Wedding.