How
will you know if you are really in love or if it is just infatuation? Love is
an action and infatuation is a feeling. Love, unlike infatuation and lust take
commitment and devotion to a person. This is because when we truly love someone
it takes self-sacrificing behaviors and attitude.
When
you love someone you wouldn’t do anything to hurt him or her. If you’re
not married you wouldn’t try to incite passion within her and she would not
flirt with and excite him. These actions come from the feelings that
infatuation creates. If we constantly obsess about a person we are in a
relationship with, morals will take a backseat and we will get our lustful
desires met through sexual relations.
Having sex outside of the “one flesh” of marriage creates
delusion and wrong attitudes within a couple and keeps the relationship from
